{"fatawa":{"id":10127,"title":"He proposed marriage to a girl and she prayed istikhaarah and saw them both and their families in Paradise","slug":"he-proposed-marriage-to-a-girl-and-she-prayed-istikhaarah-and-saw-them-both-and-their-families-in-paradise","order":"","question":"<p>My ex fiance did an istakhara last year in ramadan, and in her dream she  saw me in jannah with her and her familly, sand we have broken the  engagement for about 2 years, and yeah we both want to be married with  each other can you please tell me what to do about getting with her  again and also tell me details about her istakhara which she did about  us and saw me with her in jannah please.<\/p>","answer":"<div class=\"list-group-item-text ftwa-single-answer font-nrmal\"><span class=\"line_height\"> Praise be to Allaah.\r\n<p>Firstly:<\/p>\r\n<p>If this girl is religiously      committed and of good character, then there is no reason why you should not      propose to her again, then complete the marriage contract with her, so long      as both of you want to get married. We ask Allaah to make good easy for you      wherever it is, and to make it a happy and blessed marriage.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Secondly:<\/p>\r\n<p>It is prescribed for the      one who wants to get married to pray istikhaarah, asking Allaah for      guidance, and to mention by name the girl whom he wants to marry. The girl      should also do likewise. If the matter then goes ahead smoothly with no      problems, that is a sign that it is good to go ahead and complete the      marriage contract, but if he encounters any obstacles that is a sign that      Allaah is diverting him from going ahead.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Istikhaarah does not depend      on dreams as some people think. We have discussed istikhaarah and how it is      to be done, and commented on the hadeeth about it, in the answer to question      no. <a href=\"http:\/\/islamqa.info\/en\/11981\">11981<\/a> and     <a href=\"http:\/\/islamqa.info\/en\/5882\">5882<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>We do not know how to      interpret dreams.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>And Allaah knows best.<\/p>\r\n<\/span><\/div>\r\n<div style=\"padding: 3px; padding-right: 6px; text-align: right;\">Islam Q&amp;A<\/div>","status":1,"created_at":"2015-03-15T20:51:58.000000Z","updated_at":"2015-03-15T20:51:58.000000Z","language_id":1,"fatawacate_id":39,"parent_id":10126,"author_id":"","books":[],"articles":[],"videos":[],"audios":[],"author_name":"","category_name":"\u0627\u0644\u062e\u0637\u0628\u0629","category_slug":"","get_date":"2015-03-15"},"translations":[],"fatawa_books":[],"fatawa_articles":[],"fatawa_videos":[],"fatawa_audios":[],"url":"http:\/\/islamland.com\/eng\/api\/fatawas\/10127"}