{"fatawa":{"id":12584,"title":"Difference in spending on two wives, and spending on children of one wife from a previous marriage","slug":"difference-in-spending-on-two-wives-and-spending-on-children-of-one-wife-from-a-previous-marriage","order":"","question":"<p>I am married to two wives.  I am not quite sure how to be fair towards  them regarding financial issues.  They both live in different houses.   One has 2 children from a different marriage, and the other has one son  from our marriage.  Do I have a financial obligation towards those  children who are not mine?  The two households spend different amounts  of money on basic necessities (food, electricity, gas,  transportation....), how can I be fair towards both and that is the  case?<\/p>","answer":"<div class=\"list-group-item-text ftwa-single-answer font-nrmal\"><span class=\"line_height\">\r\n<p>Praise be to Allaah.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Treating       wives equally with regard to spending money and time is waajib       (obligatory), unless one of them agrees to forego some of her rights in       favour of the other. It is also waajib to treat the children equally, but       you do not have to spend on the children from a different marriage unless       there is no one to spend on them, in which case their expenses are an       obligation on all the Muslims, of whom you are one.<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;If       their accommodation differs in terms of basic necessities because one of       the families is larger than the other, there is nothing wrong with that,       but the additional spending involved should be related to the larger       number of individuals concerned.<\/p>\r\n<p><em>&nbsp;Written       by al-Khudayr<\/em><\/p>\r\n<\/span><\/div>\r\n<div style=\"padding: 3px; padding-right: 6px; text-align: right;\">Islam Q&amp;A <br \/> Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid<\/div>","status":1,"created_at":"2015-04-22T20:52:01.000000Z","updated_at":"2015-04-22T20:52:01.000000Z","language_id":1,"fatawacate_id":45,"parent_id":12583,"author_id":"","books":[],"articles":[],"videos":[],"audios":[],"author_name":"","category_name":"\u062a\u0639\u062f\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0632\u0648\u062c\u0627\u062a \u0648\u0627\u0644\u0639\u062f\u0644 \u0628\u064a\u0646\u0647\u0646","category_slug":"","get_date":"2015-04-22"},"translations":[],"fatawa_books":[],"fatawa_articles":[],"fatawa_videos":[],"fatawa_audios":[],"url":"http:\/\/islamland.com\/eng\/api\/fatawas\/12584"}