{"fatawa":{"id":12983,"title":"Ruling on abortion, divorcing a pregnant woman and putting pressure on a wife to make her give up her rights","slug":"ruling-on-abortion-divorcing-a-pregnant-woman-and-putting-pressure-on-a-wife-to-make-her-give-up-her-rights","order":"","question":"<p>What is the Islamic ruling on a husband who tries to make his wife have  an abortion in the second month of pregnancy because he wants to divorce  her, by giving her medicine against her wishes, although the abortion  did not happen? Is that halaal or haraam? What is the expiation for that  deed? Is it permissible to divorce a wife when she is pregnant? What is  the ruling on forcing a wife to give up her rights before she is  divorced?.<\/p>","answer":"<div class=\"list-group-item-text ftwa-single-answer font-nrmal\"><span class=\"line_height\"> Praise be to Allaah.\r\n<p>Firstly:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Aborting pregnancy is not permissible, whether the soul has      been breathed into the foetus or not, but after the soul has been breathed      into it, the prohibition is more emphatic. If a husband orders his wife to      have an abortion, it is not permissible for her to obey him.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Shaykh Muhammad ibn Ibraaheem (may Allaah have mercy on him)      said:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>As for trying to abort a pregnancy, that is not permissible      so long as the death of the foetus in utero is not proven; if that is proven      then it is permissible.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Majmoo&rsquo; Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn Ibraaheem<\/em> (11\/151).&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (may Allaah preserve him) said: &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Firstly:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Aborting pregnancy is not permissible. If a woman is pregnant      the pregnancy must be protected, and it is haraam for the mother to harm      this pregnancy or to put any kind of pressure on it, because it is a trust      that Allaah has placed in her womb and it has rights, so it is not      permissible to mistreat it, harm it or destroy it. The shar&rsquo;i evidence      indicates that it is haraam to abort pregnancy.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The fact that she cannot give birth without surgery is no      justification for abortion. Many women cannot give birth without surgery, so      this is not an excuse to abort the surgery.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Secondly:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>If the soul has been breathed into this foetus and it has      begun to move, then she aborted it after that and it died, then she is      regarded as having killed a soul, so she must offer expiation by freeing a      slave. If that is not possible then she must fast for two consecutive months      as repentance to Allaah. That applies if it was four months old, because in      that case the soul had been breathed into it. If she aborted it after that,      then she must offer expiation as described above. This matter is very      serious and cannot be taken lightly. If she could not bear the pregnancy      because she is sick, then she should take medicines that prevent pregnancy      before it begins, such as taking pills to delay getting pregnant until she      regains her health and strength.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Al-Muntaqa<\/em> (5\/301, 302).&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him)      was asked about a man who said to his wife: Abort what is in your womb and      the sin will be on me. If she did that in obedience to him, what expiation      must they offer?&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>He replied:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>If she did that, then they must both offer expiation by      freeing a believing slave. If they cannot do that, then they must fast for      two consecutive months, and they must give a male or female slave to his      heirs who did not kill him, not to the father because the father is the one      who ordered that he be killed, so he does not deserve anything. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The phrase &ldquo;male or female slave&rdquo; refers to the diyah for the      foetus, the value of a male or female slave, which the scholars set at      one-tenth of the diyah for the mother.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The ruling on abortion has been discussed previously in more      than one question. Please see: <a href=\"http:\/\/islamqa.info\/index.php\/en\/13317\">13317<\/a>,      <a href=\"http:\/\/islamqa.info\/index.php\/en\/42321\">42321<\/a> and      <a href=\"http:\/\/islamqa.info\/index.php\/en\/12733\">12733<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Secondly:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>With regard to divorcing a pregnant woman, it is a sunnah      talaaq. It is widely believed among many of the common folk that it is      contrary to the Sunnah, but there is no basis or evidence for their view.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Muslim (1471) narrated the story of how Ibn &lsquo;Umar divorced      his wife, and the Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)      said: &ldquo;Tell him to take her back and divorce her when she is pure (not      menstruating) or is pregnant.&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Ibn &lsquo;Abd al-Barr said:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>With regard to the pregnant woman, there is no difference of      opinion among the scholars that she may be divorced according to the Sunnah      from the beginning of the pregnancy to the end, because her &lsquo;iddah is until      she gives birth. Similarly it was proven from the Prophet  (peace and      blessings of Allaah be upon him) in the hadeeth of Ibn &lsquo;Umar that he told      him to divorce her (his wife) when she was pure (not menstruating) or was      pregnant, and there is no distinction between the beginning or end of      pregnancy.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Al-Tamheed<\/em> (15\/80).&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>We have quoted the fatwa of Shaykh &lsquo;Abd al-&lsquo;Azeez ibn Baaz      (may Allaah have mercy on him) about the ruling on divorcing a pregnant      woman in the answer to question no. <a href=\"http:\/\/islamqa.info\/index.php\/en\/12287\">12287<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Thirdly:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>It is not permissible for a husband to take any of his wife&rsquo;s      property unless she gives it willingly, including her mahr (dowry), unless      she has committed an act of blatant immorality, because Allaah says      (interpretation of the meaning):&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>&ldquo;but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part      of it to you, take it, and enjoy it without fear of any harm (as Allaah has      made it lawful)&rdquo;<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>[al-Nisa&rsquo; 4:4]&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>&ldquo;and you should not treat them with harshness, that you      may take away part of the Mahr you have given them, unless they commit open      illegal sexual intercourse&rdquo;<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>[al-Nisa&rsquo; 4:19]<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Ibn Qudaamah said: &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>[The scholars] are unanimously agreed that it is haraam to      take her wealth except in the case of wilful defiance (nushooz) or bad      conduct on her part. Ibn al-Mundhir narrated that al-Nu&rsquo;maan said: If the      wrongdoing and mistreatment comes from him and she separated from him by      means of khula&rsquo;, then it is permissible but he is sinning; what he did is      not permissible for him but he should not be forced to return what he took.      &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Ibn al-Mundhir said: What he says is contrary to the apparent      meaning of the Book of Allaah, and contrary to the proven report from the      Prophet  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and contrary to      the consensus of most of the scholars.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Al-Mughni<\/em> (3\/137).&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said in <em>Majmoo&rsquo; al-Fataawa<\/em> (32\/283):&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>It is not permissible for a man to treat his wife with      harshness and put pressure on her until she gives up some of the dowry, or      to beat her for that purpose. But if she commits an act of blatant      immorality, he has the right to treat her harshly so that she will give him      something in return for letting her go, and he may hit her. This is      something that is between a man and Allaah. As for the wife&rsquo;s family, they      should find out who is in the right and support him or her. If it becomes      clear to them that she is the one who has transgressed the limits set by      Allaah and has been unfaithful to her husband, then she is the wrongdoer and      transgressor so she should give something n return for divorce. End quote.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>What is meant by an act of blatant immorality (translated as      &ldquo;<em>illegal sexual intercourse<\/em>&rdquo;) in the verse <em>&ldquo;and you should not      treat them with harshness, that you may take away part of the Mahr you have      given them, unless they commit open illegal sexual intercourse&rdquo;[al-Nisa&rsquo;      4:19] <\/em>is zina (adultery) and lack of understanding and bad conduct, such      as speaking bad words or mistreating her husband.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>See <em>Tafseer al-Sa&rsquo;di<\/em>, p. 242&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>And Allaah knows best.<\/p>\r\n<\/span><\/div>\r\n<div style=\"padding: 3px; padding-right: 6px; text-align: right;\">Islam Q&amp;A<\/div>","status":1,"created_at":"2015-04-27T20:52:01.000000Z","updated_at":"2015-04-27T20:52:01.000000Z","language_id":1,"fatawacate_id":46,"parent_id":12982,"author_id":"","books":[],"articles":[],"videos":[],"audios":[],"author_name":"","category_name":"\u0627\u0644\u062d\u0642\u0648\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0632\u0648\u062c\u064a\u0629","category_slug":"","get_date":"2015-04-27"},"translations":[],"fatawa_books":[],"fatawa_articles":[],"fatawa_videos":[],"fatawa_audios":[],"url":"http:\/\/islamland.com\/eng\/api\/fatawas\/12983"}