{"fatawa":{"id":13126,"title":"A husband has not been fulfilling his responsibility towards his wife for five years","slug":"a-husband-has-not-been-fulfilling-his-responsibility-towards-his-wife-for-five-years","order":"","question":"<p>&nbsp;If the husband does not take the responsiblity of a wife throughout his  marraige of 5 years . what is the wife suppose to do in such case, Is  she entitled to maintaince, or if she decides to have a seperation what  is the procedure for the divorce according to Quran and sunnah?<\/p>","answer":"<div class=\"list-group-item-text ftwa-single-answer font-nrmal\"><span class=\"line_height\"> Praise            be to Allaah. &nbsp;\r\n<p>Undoubtedly it is the husband&rsquo;s obligation to spend on            his wife and to do his duty towards her and give her all her rights.            If he fails her and falls short in his duties towards her, or he causes            her harm, then she has the right to demand separation, i.e., divorce.            But before that she has to ask him to spend on her and provide her with            accommodation, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>&ldquo;Lodge them (the divorced women) where you dwell,            according to your means&rdquo;&nbsp;&nbsp; [al-Talaaq 65:6]&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>&ldquo;Let the rich man spend according to his means; and            the man whose resources are restricted, let him spend according to what            Allaah has given him. Allaah puts no burden on any person beyond what            He has given him&rdquo;[al-Talaaq 65:7]<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>And he has to live with her honourably. Allaah says (interpretation            of the meaning):&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>&ldquo;and live with them honourably&rdquo;[al-Nisaa&rsquo; 4:19]<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>If her husband gives her her rights as prescribed in            sharee&rsquo;ah, then it is haraam for her to ask for divorce, because the            Prophet                       (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: &ldquo;Any woman who asks            for divorce when there is no reason, the fragrance of Paradise will            be forbidden to her.&rdquo; But if she is being harmed, and the situation            is too much for her to bear, and he is not spending enough on her or            he is not giving her her rights, then she has the right to ask for a            divorce. She should go to the qaadi and explain the situation to him,            and he in turn should ask the husband to give her her rights or to divorce            her.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<\/span><\/div>\r\n<div style=\"padding: 3px; padding-right: 6px; text-align: right;\">Shaykh &lsquo;Abd-Allaah ibn Jibreen.<\/div>","status":1,"created_at":"2015-04-28T20:52:01.000000Z","updated_at":"2015-04-28T20:52:01.000000Z","language_id":1,"fatawacate_id":46,"parent_id":13125,"author_id":"","books":[],"articles":[],"videos":[],"audios":[],"author_name":"","category_name":"\u0627\u0644\u062d\u0642\u0648\u0642 \u0627\u0644\u0632\u0648\u062c\u064a\u0629","category_slug":"","get_date":"2015-04-28"},"translations":[],"fatawa_books":[],"fatawa_articles":[],"fatawa_videos":[],"fatawa_audios":[],"url":"http:\/\/islamland.com\/eng\/api\/fatawas\/13126"}