{"fatawa":{"id":8125,"title":"She wants to marry a man who has a contagious disease","slug":"she-wants-to-marry-a-man-who-has-a-contagious-disease","order":"","question":"What do you suggest a muslimah do if she wants to get married to someone who has herpes? His religoin and character is just, but he made that mistake at his teens, almost 20 years ago, he repented and never made the same mistake again. Will Allah protect me if I marry him for good islamic reasons and stay obedient to Allah?.","answer":"Praise be to Allaah.  \r\nIt states in sharee\u2019ah that the Muslim should not expose himself to harm. \r\n\r\nThat includes mixing with a person who has a contagious disease, especially if that disease is serious and chronic, such as herpes. \r\n\r\nThe rulings of sharee\u2019ah are addressed to everyone, sick and healthy alike. \r\n\r\nWith regard to the one who is sick, Muslim (2221) narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: \u201cThe owner of sick camels should not bring them to the healthy ones\u201d \u2013 lest the disease be transmitted to the healthy ones. \r\n\r\nWith regard to the one who is healthy, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: \u201cFlee from the leper as you would flee from a lion.\u201d Narrated by Ahmad, 9429; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami\u2019, 7530. \r\n\r\nLeprosy is a well-known contagious disease \u2013 we ask Allaah to keep us safe and sound. \r\n\r\nMuslim (2231) narrated from \u2018Amr ibn al-Shareed that his father said: Among the delegation from Thaqeef there was a leper. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) sent word to him saying: \u201cWe have accepted your oath of allegiance; go back.\u201d \r\n\r\nIbn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in Miftaah Daar al-Sa\u2019aadah (2\/272): \r\n\r\nHe sent word to that leper accepting his oath of allegiance so as to establish the shar\u2019i principle of avoiding the causes of harmful and hateful things, because a person should not expose himself to the causes of harm. \r\n\r\nIbn al-Qayyim said in Zaad al-Ma\u2019aad (4\/147): \r\n\r\nChapter on the guidance of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) on avoiding contagious diseases and his advice to healthy people to avoid those who have such diseases. Then he quoted the ahaadeeth mentioned above. \r\n\r\nYour wish to marry this man who has herpes may be influenced by emotion, and you think that you are being patient and forbearing, then if disaster strikes you will regret it when regret will be of no benefit. There is nothing to compare to good health. \r\n\r\nOur advice to you is not to marry this person.\r\n\r\nWe ask Allaah to bless you with a righteous husband who will help you in your religious affairs. \r\n\r\nAnd Allaah knows best.\r\n\r\nIslam Q&A","status":1,"created_at":"2014-10-30T20:51:57.000000Z","updated_at":"2014-10-30T20:51:57.000000Z","language_id":1,"fatawacate_id":34,"parent_id":8124,"author_id":"","books":[],"articles":[],"videos":[],"audios":[],"author_name":"","category_name":"Fiqh of the family - general","category_slug":"","get_date":"2014-10-30"},"translations":[],"fatawa_books":[],"fatawa_articles":[],"fatawa_videos":[],"fatawa_audios":[],"url":"http:\/\/islamland.com\/eng\/api\/fatawas\/8125"}