{"fatawa":{"id":9175,"title":"He has AIDS \u2013 can he marry someone who has the same disease?","slug":"he-has-aids-can-he-marry-someone-who-has-the-same-disease","order":"","question":"<p>I have a question similiar to the Question Reference #11137, (Ruling on  marrying one&rsquo;s daughter to an AIDS patient). I myself am in a similiar  situation wherein I want to marry a sister and she has been diagnosed  with the HIV virus. However her levels of the virus are so low that they  are undetectible. She has been married before and has a 4 year old son,  both of whom have not contracted the virus. In reference to marrying  someone with the HIV virus I understand that some scholars say that it  is not permissible, and some say other wise. In your answer to the above  question you say it's okay given the parties are aware of it. My  question is:  <br \/> 1. Can she marry if the relations she has are protected?  <br \/> 2. Can she marry if both people agree not to have intercourse?  <br \/> 3. Can a man marry her to have her rights of marriage be fulfilled for the pleasure of Allah?.<\/p>","answer":"<div class=\"list-group-item-text ftwa-single-answer font-nrmal\"><span class=\"line_height\"> Praise be to Allaah.\r\n<p>In the answer to question no.     <a href=\"http:\/\/islamqa.info\/en\/11137\">11137<\/a> we stated the ruling on      marriage of one who has AIDS, and we said: He should not marry until he has      explained his situation and said, &ldquo;I have such and such a disease.&rdquo; If they      agree to that then all well and good, otherwise the marriage should not go      ahead, because if he conceals his situation from them, then he has deceived      them and cheated them, and this woman may transmit the disease to her      husband, or the husband may transmit it to his wife, and it may be      transmitted to their children after that. But if she agrees to marry you and      accepts the will and decree of Allaah, there is nothing wrong with that.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>There is nothing wrong with the brother who asked this      question marrying a woman who is healthy or sick, so long as you explain      your medical situation. If they agree, and you want to have intercourse,      then you can use condoms.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Dr &lsquo;Abd-Allaah al-Haqeel &ndash; whom I consulted and who is the      head of the Stomach Diseases section in the Medical College of the King      Sa&rsquo;ood University &ndash; said: &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Marriage of an AIDS patient is a serious problem, because the      main cause of the transmission of this disease is sexual contact. Using a      condom gives a high degree of protection but the other party &ndash; man or woman,      must be fully aware of the expected consequences.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Al-Watan newspaper, issue no. 522, 2<sup>nd<\/sup> year &ndash;      Tuesday 21 Dhu&rsquo;l-Hijjah AH\/ 5 March 202 CE.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Married life is not only about intercourse; you could marry      this woman if you both agree not to have intercourse, for a man&rsquo;s need for a      woman, and vice versa, is not just the matter of sexual needs. There are the      matters of caring for one another, protection, spending, love and helping      one another to obey Allaah. The love of one party for the other, so that the      latter may inherit, may the reason for marriage, such as marriage to a minor      who is not able for intercourse. Such a marriage is valid according to      sharee&rsquo;ah, even if no intercourse takes place. Based on this, there is no      reason why you should not get married and agree not to have intercourse.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The majority of scholars stated that it is permissible for a      Muslim to get married during his final illness, if he is mature and of sound      mind; what need for intercourse is there in this case for which he should      get married?&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him)      was asked about a sick person who got married whilst he was sick &ndash; is this      marriage contract valid?&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>He replied:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The marriage of a sick      person is valid, and the wife inherits from him, according to the majority      of Muslim scholars among the Sahaabah and Taabi&rsquo;een, and she is only      entitled to a mahr like that of her peers; she is not entitled to more than      that, according to scholarly consensus. End quote.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Al-Fataawa al-Kubra<\/em>, 3\/99&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>He also said (5\/466):&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The marriage of a sick person during his final illness is      valid, and the wife inherits from him, according to the majority of scholars      among the Sahaabah and Taabi&rsquo;een, but she is not entitled to anything other      than the mahr of her peers, and no more than that, according to consensus.      End quote.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>And Allaah knows best.<\/p>\r\n<\/span><\/div>\r\n<div style=\"padding: 3px; padding-right: 6px; text-align: right;\">Islam Q&amp;A<\/div>","status":1,"created_at":"2015-02-02T21:51:58.000000Z","updated_at":"2015-02-02T21:51:58.000000Z","language_id":1,"fatawacate_id":36,"parent_id":9174,"author_id":"","books":[],"articles":[],"videos":[],"audios":[],"author_name":"","category_name":"\u0639\u0642\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0643\u0627\u062d","category_slug":"","get_date":"2015-02-02"},"translations":[],"fatawa_books":[],"fatawa_articles":[],"fatawa_videos":[],"fatawa_audios":[],"url":"http:\/\/islamland.com\/eng\/api\/fatawas\/9175"}