{"fatawa":{"id":9279,"title":"Reciting al-Faatihah when getting engaged","slug":"reciting-al-faatihah-when-getting-engaged","order":"","question":"<p>I am a young Muslim man who is about to get married. In the country  where I am going to do the marriage contract, they do something that  they call &ldquo;Reciting al-Faatihah.&rdquo; When a man wants to get married in our  country, they recite al-Faatihah, and they invite some of the male  relatives to that, and they offer them some sweets and drinks. Is  reciting al-Faatihah part of the Sunnah, and if that is the case, what  are the consequences of doing that?<\/p>","answer":"<div class=\"list-group-item-text ftwa-single-answer font-nrmal\"><span class=\"line_height\">\r\n<p>Praise       be to Allah.<\/p>\r\n<p>Reciting al-Faatihah at the time of the        marriage contract or engagement has nothing to do with the Sunnah; rather        it is an innovation (bid&lsquo;ah). It is not permissible to single out any part        of the Qur&rsquo;an for any actions except on the basis of evidence.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Abu Shaamah al-Maqdisi said in <em>al-Baa&lsquo;ith      &lsquo;ala Inkaar al-Bida&lsquo; wa&rsquo;l-Hawaadith<\/em> (165):&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>It is not appropriate to single out      times for acts of worship that were not singled out for such acts in Islamic      teachings. People have no authority decide such matters; rather that is the      prerogative of the Lawgiver. End quote.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The scholars of the Standing Committee      for Issuing Fatwas were asked:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Is reciting al-Faatihah at the time      when a man gets engaged to a woman an innovation (bid &lsquo;ah)?&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>They replied:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Reciting al-Faatihah at the time of a      man's proposal to a woman or at the time of his marriage contract with her      is an innovation. End quote.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>None of the rulings of the marriage      contract come into effect as a consequence of reciting al-Faatihah. Reciting      al-Faatihah does not mean that the marriage contract has been completed;      rather what matters is the proposal and acceptance with the wali (woman&rsquo;s      guardian) and witnesses.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The Sunnah is to recite khutbat al-haajah      at the time of the marriage contract.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>It was narrated that &lsquo;Abdullah ibn      Mas&lsquo;ood (may Allaah be pleased with him) said:<\/p>\r\n<p>The Messenger of Allah (peace and      blessings of Allah be upon him) taught us Khutbat al-Haajah, (to be said) at      weddings and on other occasions:<\/p>\r\n<p>&ldquo;<em>Inna al-hamda&nbsp; Lillaahi      nasta&rsquo;eenahu wa nastaghfiruhu, wa na&rsquo;oodhu bihi min shuroori anfusinaa. Man      yahdih Illaahu falaa mudilla lahu wa man yudlil falaa haadiya lahu. Wa      ashhadu an laa ilaaha ill-Allaah wa ashhadu anna Muhammadan &lsquo;abduhu wa      rasooluhu<\/em> (Verily, all praise is to Allah, we seek His help and His      forgiveness. We seek refuge with Him from the evil of our own souls.      Whomsoever Allah guides will never be led astray, and whomsoever Allah      leaves astray, no one can guide. I bear witness that there is no god but      Allah, and I bear witness that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger).<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;&lsquo;<em>Yaa ayyuha&rsquo;n-naas uttaqu rabbakum      alladhi khalaqakum min nafsin waahidatin wa khalaqa minhaa zawjahaa wa      baththa minhumaa rijaalan katheeran wa nisaa&rsquo;an wa&rsquo;ttaqu-Llaah alladhi      tasaa&rsquo;aloona bihi wa&rsquo;l-arhaama inna Allaaha kaana &lsquo;alaykum raqeeban<\/em> (O      mankind! Be dutiful to your Lord, Who created you from a single person, and      from him He created his wife, and from them both He created many men and      women, and fear Allah through Whom you demand your mutual (rights), and (do      not cut the relations of) the wombs (kinship) Surely, Allah is Ever an      All-Watcher over you).&rsquo; [al-Nisaa&rsquo; 4:1]<\/p>\r\n<p>&lsquo;<em>Yaa ayyuha&rsquo;lladheena      aamanu-ttaqu&rsquo;Llaaha haqqa tuqaatihi wa laa tamootunna illaa wa antum      muslimoon<\/em> (O you who believe! Fear Allah as He should be feared, and die      not except in a state of Islam (as Muslims) with complete submission to      Allah.)&rsquo; [Aal &lsquo;Imraan 3:102]&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>&lsquo;<em>Yaa ayyahu&rsquo;lladheena      aamanu-ttaqu&rsquo;Llaaha wa qooloo qawlan sadeedan<\/em>&nbsp; <em>yuslih lakum      a&rsquo;maalakum wa yaghfir lakum dhunoobakum wa man yuti&rsquo; Allaaha wa rasoolahu fa      qad faaza fawzan &lsquo;azeeman<\/em> (O you who believe! Keep your duty to Allah      and fear Him, and speak (always) the truth). He will direct you to do      righteous good deeds and will forgive you your sins. And whosoever obeys      Allah and His Messenger, he has indeed achieved a great achievement (i.e. he      will be saved from the Hell\u2011fire and will be admitted to Paradise)&rsquo; [al-Ahzaab      33:70, 71].&rdquo;&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Narrated by Abu Dawood (2118) and      classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in <em>Saheeh Abi Dawood<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The people have turned away from this      Sunnah and adhered to this bid &lsquo;ah. We ask Allah, may He be exalted, to      bring the Muslims back to their religion in the best way.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>And Allah knows best.<\/p>\r\n<\/span><\/div>\r\n<div style=\"padding: 3px; padding-right: 6px; text-align: right;\">Islam Q&amp;A<\/div>","status":1,"created_at":"2015-02-04T21:51:58.000000Z","updated_at":"2015-02-04T21:51:58.000000Z","language_id":1,"fatawacate_id":36,"parent_id":9278,"author_id":"","books":[],"articles":[],"videos":[],"audios":[],"author_name":"","category_name":"\u0639\u0642\u062f \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0643\u0627\u062d","category_slug":"","get_date":"2015-02-04"},"translations":[],"fatawa_books":[],"fatawa_articles":[],"fatawa_videos":[],"fatawa_audios":[],"url":"http:\/\/islamland.com\/eng\/api\/fatawas\/9279"}