{"fatawa":{"id":9560,"title":"Shar\u2019i implications of husband\u2019s zina with his wife\u2019s mother before and after marriage","slug":"shari-implications-of-husbands-zina-with-his-wifes-mother-before-and-after-marriage","order":"","question":"<p>There is a woman who is married, and her husband committed zina several  times with her mother, but this wife does not know. What should she do  with her mother and her husband? She is confused about her situation.<\/p>","answer":"<div class=\"list-group-item-text ftwa-single-answer font-nrmal\"><span class=\"line_height\"> Praise be to Allaah.\r\n<p>Firstly:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>It is not permissible for anyone to claim that someone else      has committed zina unless that is proven in the way dictated by sharee&rsquo;ah,      such as a confession of the zaani, or the testimony of four men of good      character who witnessed the act of zina. The one who claims that someone      committed zina with no proof has committed slander, which is a major sin for      which a person deserves eighty lashes; this is the hadd punishment for      slander.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):<\/p>\r\n<p>&nbsp;<em>&ldquo;And those who accuse chaste women,      and produce not four witnesses, flog them with eighty stripes, and reject      their testimony forever. They indeed are the Faasiqoon (liars, rebellious,      disobedient to Allaah).<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>5.&nbsp;Except those who repent thereafter and do righteous      deeds; (for such) verily, Allaah is Oft\u2011Forgiving, Most Merciful&rdquo;<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>[al-Noor 24:4-5]<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Secondly:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>If the questioner has proof of what is mentioned in the      question, that the husband committed the sin of zina with his wife&rsquo;s mother,      then it should be noted that they both deserve the punishment and wrath of      Allaah, and they deserve to be punished in this world. As the woman is      married, she deserves to be stoned to death. If he was married then he      deserves the same, and if he committed zina before he was married, then the      punishment is one hundred lashes.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>&ldquo;The fornicatress and the fornicator, flog each of them      with a hundred stripes. Let not pity withhold you in their case, in a      punishment prescribed by Allaah, if you believe in Allaah and the Last Day.      And let a party of the believers witness their punishment.&rdquo;<\/em><\/p>\r\n<p><em>[al-Noor 24:2]<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah said: A Muslim man came to      the Messenger of Allaah  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)      when he was in the mosque and called out to him, saying: O Messenger of      Allaah, I have committed zina. He turned away from him, so he came around to      face him and said to him: O Messenger of Allaah, I have committed zina. He      turned away from him, until he had repeated that four times. When he had      testified against himself four times, the Messenger of Allaah  (peace      and blessings of Allaah be upon him) called him and said: &ldquo;Are you insane?&rdquo;      He said: No. He said: &ldquo;Are you married?&rdquo; He said: Yes. The Messenger of      Allaah  (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: &ldquo;Take him and      stone him.&rdquo;<\/p>\r\n<p>Narrated by al-Bukhaari (6439) and Muslim (1691).&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>&ldquo;Married&rdquo; refers to one who has previously been married and      consummated the marriage, even if divorce took place after that or the      husband or wife died.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Imam Ahmad said &ndash; according to one report narrated from him &ndash;      concerning the one who does that: He is to be executed whatever the case,      i.e., the one who commits zina with one of his mahrams is to be executed,      whether he was married or not, and whether the mahram was a mahram through      blood ties, marriage or breastfeeding.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Ibn Qudaamah said: This is also the view of Jaabir ibn Zayd,      Ishaaq, Abu Ayyoob and Ibn Abi Khaythamah. End quote. <em>Al-Mughni<\/em> (12\/341).&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: If the      evil deed was done with a mahram, this is the worst of evil deeds, and the      one who did that is to be executed in all cases, according to Imam Ahmad and      others.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Rawdat al-Muhibbeen<\/em> p. 374.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Does the fact that he committed zina with her mother mean      that it is haraam for him to marry her daughter, or that the marriage should      be annulled? There is a difference of opinion among the scholars concerning      that. The most correct view is that it does not make the marriage haraam and      the marriage should not be annulled.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>The ruling on this matter has been stated and explained in      detail in the answer to question no.      <a href=\"http:\/\/islamqa.info\/en\/78597\">78597<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Thirdly:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>What the wife must do now is:&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;     Not act or make any decision      about this matter unless she has definitive proof.<\/p>\r\n<p>2.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;     Advise her mother &ndash; if the      accusation of zina is proven &ndash; that it is essential to repent sincerely.<\/p>\r\n<p>3.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;     Advise her husband to repent      sincerely if he committed zina with her mother after she got married. It is      essential to keep him away from her mother in living arrangements and      meetings so that this deed will not be repeated. If he does not repent from      this action then she should hasten to get divorced, and it is not      permissible for her to stay with him, because Allaah has forbidden marriage      of a zaani to a chaste believing woman.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>We understand what a severe calamity has befallen this      sister. How great is a woman&rsquo;s grief, and difficult it is for her to bear it      if her husband commits zina, and it is a thousand and one times more      difficult to bear it when her mother commits zina, so how about if it is her      husband who is committing zina with her mother? This is indeed a calamity!&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>We ask Allaah to relieve her distress and take away her      sorrow, and to bless her with patience and wisdom.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>But before making any major decision, we advise her to think      long and hard about the consequences.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>If she decides to leave her husband, then in that case can      she live in the same house as her mother, who is the one who did that and      wrecked her marriage?&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>We think, if she has no suitable place to go and no mahram      who can take care of her, that staying with her husband and advising him to      repent and mend his ways is easier for her than getting divorced and living      in her mother&rsquo;s house.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>This sister should weigh up the consequences of her decision.      Some evils are easier to bear than others.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>And Allaah knows best.<\/p>\r\n<\/span><\/div>\r\n<div style=\"padding: 3px; padding-right: 6px; text-align: right;\">Islam Q&amp;A<\/div>","status":1,"created_at":"2015-02-07T21:51:58.000000Z","updated_at":"2015-02-07T21:51:58.000000Z","language_id":1,"fatawacate_id":37,"parent_id":9559,"author_id":"","books":[],"articles":[],"videos":[],"audios":[],"author_name":"","category_name":"\u0623\u062d\u0643\u0627\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0646\u0643\u0627\u062d","category_slug":"","get_date":"2015-02-07"},"translations":[],"fatawa_books":[],"fatawa_articles":[],"fatawa_videos":[],"fatawa_audios":[],"url":"http:\/\/islamland.com\/eng\/api\/fatawas\/9560"}